March 21, 2024

WARMTH, FRIENDS, FAMILY ~ THANKFUL THURSDAY STORIES

Winter is winding down, yet one is never quite sure as March marches on whether it will leave wild and windy or softly, ever so gently.  Spring has officially arrived, but as we bid farewell to "ole man winter", we did not want to do so without a big, warm THANK YOU to those who made us warm and cozy, those who made our home very special throughout these days.  Over past months (and once, long long ago) we've been blessed, been gifted ~ both June and myself ~ by dear friends, by the warmth of friendship ... you've likely seen these gifts in photos shared here before, let us tell you their stories.


The beautiful blanket draped over the chair behind June 
(she is not allowed to touch this
was crocheted with love by dear friend Linda, of DaWeenies of Florida.
The design, color, detail are all extraordinary and it is a round blanket
nearly 50-inches in diameter.  Linda is also the designer and publisher for the
monthly blog, Our Rainbow Friends and a personal friend of many years.


Of course, who doesn't know we're dotty here at Zoolatry.  
This big 'n' wonderful 'n' warm blanket was a special gift ~ 
and yes, used by both of us ~ 
was a gift from our very good friends, 
Miss Wendy and beautiful Dani, of the blog O Dani Girl.  
When June and I would sit together (yes, that does happen once in awhile
in our her polka dot chair, this kept us warmed up
against winters chill!


Now this is surely recognized, as June shows up quite often in her blankie basket.
Sometimes on top of her very own and totally purrsonal polka dot blankie.
Sometimes tucked underneath that same polka dot blankie!
Hers and hers alone ~ handmade with love, just for June by the one and only
sweet Ellen of 15 and Meowing.
June loves this blankie, she loves Ellen, too!
And yes, I can attest and swear to the fact that she does tuck herself
in and under the blankie anytime and anyway she wants!


This story is far longer than the others ~ this is a wedding shawl, but a shawl nearly as big as a blanket, handmade in the fall of 1974.  Although it was once draped over the chair, it is now safely tucked away as the tassels were far too tempting for kitty-play.  And this shawl holds far too many memories ~ 
Knit by the lovely woman and friend who also made my wedding gown, the shawl was her gift to me for a late November wedding in Georgetown, Washington, DC.  Who knew what the weather might be, but it was a warm, blue sky autumn day and this gift was perfect.  Though the gift was perfect, the wedding was not.

The night before an ambulance took my Mom to hospital, ICU, she was in a coma.
My Dad, myself, other family, all were there all night long.
Dad insisted the wedding proceed the next day even though Mom would not be there.
Saturday came, following a sleepless anxiety filled night, Dad forgot to come
pick me up to drive me to the church... so had to come back for me.  We were late.
Father Frank came to the altar in a wheelchair as he'd fallen, 
hurt his back terribly and a few too many pain pills caused his words to slur ... 
we mixed up our vows, he forgot several prayers.
Our musician, Mike, got confused about what to play, when.
But yes, we were officially married!
...
We left Holy Trinity and went straight to the hospital, to ICU.
Never fully sure, but we hoped Mom had opened her eyes long enough to see her
only daughter in her wedding gown, to see her new son in law, to
see her weary husband by her bedside, to receive a blessing from Father Frank.
...
When we finally reached our reception, many of the guests had left,
much of the food was gone, the cake had been cut (by who?).  But I was
thankful that all (at least I think all) signed our guest book!
[And of course, the honeymoon was cancelled.]
...

My Mom recovered well in time, and lived until the wonderful age of 96 ... my Dad passed in his 88th year, together they had shared over 50-years of marriage.  Father Frank remained a friend throughout life.  This November, 2024 ~ had my husband lived, we would have celebrated 50-years of marriage as well.  But that was not to be.  

So, instead, come this November,
 I'll just put on my wedding shawl, let the tassels swing around,
dance and laugh as I think back on a very memorable wedding day.



  










22 comments:

  1. Oh my word, your wedding story, with its sad elements (it must because I think I saw a lone tear in dad's eye) is both hearbreaking and heartwarming. What a delightful bunch of blankets, sweet June, and they all look so warm and cozy for sure. What a beautiful Thankful.

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  2. wow and wow again. This might be the most memorial of all weddings.. I thought my wedding in a hurricane was memorial, yours tops the hurricane. love all your polka dots and what a blessing to have friends who gifted you these things. I noticed the wedding blanket looks like white polka dots on white. its beautiful..

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  3. Such beautiful gifts you have received and your wedding story, wow! Most people would have said, bad omen, lets forget it. You and June are both very wonderful and lucky beings :)

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  4. Wow - what a wedding day you had and not one that a bride hopes for. You and Juney have such wonderful friends and such beautiful and special gifts♥

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  5. Although just 'things', they are impawtant to us for the feelings and memories that go with them.
    The Hubby and I flew to Las Vegas to get married; it wasn't for another few years before wedding chapels became legal in Michigan, otherwise we'd have done that.
    Being from a big family, where each sibling's wedding was unique, I was the last to marry, and was terrified of a big do.
    And, afterall, we'd been living together for almost seven years, so no one in the family was too excited.

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  6. Ann and June what an absolutely beautiful post...of your wedding day. You learned early we need to work with what we have at any given moment...and to Quote Bob Ross...Happy Accidents happen and things turn our well.
    Monday afternoon at 2 pm on a sunny day some scoudrel side swiped our mailbox. It broke the brace the box sat on but thankfully not the post since it is buried in cement. We were not planning on getting a new box but thanks to the scoundrel (who left the scene of his crime) Bryan just ordered us a new archeticual mailbox an STEEL brace.
    It is a happy accident and will look nice with the newly landscaped area around the post.
    I hope you and June have a lovely day
    Hugs and thank you again for the post
    Cecilia

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  7. Chaplin: "Wow, you have so many wonderful gifts and memories! Especially that wedding story!"
    Charlee: "We're glad your mom recovered and had so many great years with your dad!"
    Chaplin: "We'll be sending you lots of purrs in November on what would have been your 50th anniversary."
    Charlee: "And we're sure your husband will be dancing with you then in spirit!"

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  8. Such lovely gifts from some very sweet friends ... quite a wedding story to look back on and ponder ...

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  9. Dearest Ann,
    What a story behind that wedding shawl! It is so beautifully done and the symbolic meaning for keeping you 'warm' on your wedding day no doubt functioned two–fold due to all the stress.
    Very sad that your Mom could not be there and that your Dad with poor Father Frank who'd fallen...
    But you all got your heavenly blessings with a long life for your Mom and your Dad.
    You and your husband shared quite a long time together—wish we both could realize that!
    The memories and love continue inside our hearts forever.
    June is a real love bug and she loves her cozy spots!
    Big hugs,
    Mariette + Kitties

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  10. While I laughed out loud at some of your wedding horrors, the tears were there first and last....

    All I had to deal with was a broken air conditioning in 90F and very humid weather....shown in my not too smiley pictures....

    Hugs to you ,as your shawl will be hugging you, surrounding you with all those now precious memories.

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  11. what a touching story about the wedding shawl. So wonderful for you and June to be surrounded by so many lovely things and nice memories.

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  12. All lovely gifts. Your wedding was certainly memorable filled with memories, and thankfully your mum recovered.

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  13. What wonderful memories of so many friends your special gifts have for you, but that wedding story is quite amazing. Our mom is particularly drawn to that beautiful crocheted blanket by Linda and how remarkable it is to still have your wedding shawl.

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  14. Those are all very important treasures sweetest June and you are a wonderful treasure too. Thanks for joining Angel Brian's Thankful Thursday Blog Hop!

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  15. That's just about the most memorable wedding day story I've ever heard! June sure looks cozy on all her blankies.

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  16. OMG..Ann! What a wedding to remember!!!!! But I bet the two of you looked back on it many times and smiled. Definitely a day to remember even though there were both ups and downs...... The wedding shawl is beautiful - definitely a keepsake. June sure looks like she's enjoying her polka dot blanket. Hope the round heart afghan kept the two of you warm over the winter. You are very special to me.

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  17. And I thought my wedding had some craziness in it! I am so glad your mom recovered.

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  18. By being a beautiful, kind, and caring kitty you have earned special and generous friends/

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  19. Thank you for including us. The blue crocheted blanket and the wedding shawl are purrticularly remarkable and deserve to be so treasured. I'm sorry to hear that your wedding was so compromised. However, the most important part was completed and led to a very happy marriage. It just shows your strength. I'm glad you have the shawl as a symbol of endurance. Love, Wendy and Dani 🥰😻

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  20. Such beautiful and lovingly crafted pieces. And no wonder, you guys are just very special. 💙 Thanks for all you do in Blogville; we're richer for folks like you.

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  21. Those are all such beautiful and love-filled gifts. Your wedding story is truly amazing. We are glad that you did indeed get married that day despite it all, that your mom recovered, and you have been so blessed. XO

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  22. That crocheted blanket is especially beautiful. So June isn't a snuggler...so glad my Xena is, as my heart dog, Lexi, was not. What a terrible way to have to try to get married, with the worry and everything going wrong, except that you were both there and accomplished the most important thing.

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