It is common knowledge that I am not a lap cat. Even when getting brushies, I only sit alongside mine Mommy and depart the very second brushing ends. I am not friendly or welcoming to any who enter our apartment. No one touches me, no one. If there is a reason for my stand-off-ish-ness, I am not even sure what it is, it is buried deep in my kitten memory. I arrived here at 6-months, during the pandemic, and so was not socialized for a very long time. And mine Mommy told me that reading through papers that came with me, she is fairly sure I was a "runt" (whatever that is) and was likely neglected, treated poorly and bounced among many different peoples, none who cared much for me in those early months. Those humans may not have liked me and so I learned early on not to like them too much either! It's kinda sorta hard to get over that, even when you finally get to be with a loving and kind "mine Mommy" ...
All this is kinda sorta a prelude to something new around here ... often at night she reads a book before bedtime. I get some brushies and then wait in my chair until it's time for bed. But last night, she decided to watch something silly (it's always silly or stupid on TV, she says) so I decided "why not?" Maybe, this time, one time ... I would sit with her. It was a little chilly ... her sweater looked warm and soft (and it was). So I jumped up into the chair. She was so surprised. No. I didn't suddenly become a lap cat. But I did sit alongside her. I think she liked it. I think she was thankful I sat with her. And that sweater was warm and soft. And I was thankful. And it was kinda sorta nice.
I don't want to ruin my reputation. But I'm kinda sorta thinking about doing it again. Sometime. Meow.
that was nice to sit wit your mama... we humans have a rough time this time...
ReplyDeleteIt is nice to snuggle with mommies sometimes, June. We won't tell anybody! We know your mama loved you being close!
ReplyDeleteHow nice you had such a moment where you felt like being close. Maybe the winter months will bring more cozy feelings. Gramma adopted a perfect cat who love everyone and was cuddly but when he passed she adopted another who is similar to you. No one has seen her except Gramma as she hides whenever anyone comes to her house. She does sit next to Gramma and she also sleeps next to her but no one else gets to see or touch her. We don't know what happened to her as she was a couple years old when Gramma adopted her.
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