It is common knowledge that I am not a lap cat. Even when getting brushies, I only sit alongside mine Mommy and depart the very second brushing ends. I am not friendly or welcoming to any who enter our apartment. No one touches me, no one. If there is a reason for my stand-off-ish-ness, I am not even sure what it is, it is buried deep in my kitten memory. I arrived here at 6-months, during the pandemic, and so was not socialized for a very long time. And mine Mommy told me that reading through papers that came with me, she is fairly sure I was a "runt" (whatever that is) and was likely neglected, treated poorly and bounced among many different peoples, none who cared much for me in those early months. Those humans may not have liked me and so I learned early on not to like them too much either! It's kinda sorta hard to get over that, even when you finally get to be with a loving and kind "mine Mommy" ...
All this is kinda sorta a prelude to something new around here ... often at night she reads a book before bedtime. I get some brushies and then wait in my chair until it's time for bed. But last night, she decided to watch something silly (it's always silly or stupid on TV, she says) so I decided "why not?" Maybe, this time, one time ... I would sit with her. It was a little chilly ... her sweater looked warm and soft (and it was). So I jumped up into the chair. She was so surprised. No. I didn't suddenly become a lap cat. But I did sit alongside her. I think she liked it. I think she was thankful I sat with her. And that sweater was warm and soft. And I was thankful. And it was kinda sorta nice.
I don't want to ruin my reputation. But I'm kinda sorta thinking about doing it again. Sometime. Meow.
that was nice to sit wit your mama... we humans have a rough time this time...
ReplyDeleteIt is nice to snuggle with mommies sometimes, June. We won't tell anybody! We know your mama loved you being close!
ReplyDeleteHow nice you had such a moment where you felt like being close. Maybe the winter months will bring more cozy feelings. Gramma adopted a perfect cat who love everyone and was cuddly but when he passed she adopted another who is similar to you. No one has seen her except Gramma as she hides whenever anyone comes to her house. She does sit next to Gramma and she also sleeps next to her but no one else gets to see or touch her. We don't know what happened to her as she was a couple years old when Gramma adopted her.
ReplyDeleteI hope you sit next to your mommy again and again, Juney!
ReplyDeleteOne snuggle at a time, right June???
ReplyDeletexoxo,
Rosy & Sunny
Oh Juney ~ I am delighted to hear your sweet story ~ you and Mom are a team ~ hugs,
ReplyDeleteas for politics ~ I agree ~ the jerk in the White House needs to be controlled and hopefully removed soon ~ sigh
June, you are a delight, and we LURV that you are pushing your comfort zone.
ReplyDeleteWe have primaries coming up, and folks roll their eyes..."oh, it's a primary, no reason to vote."
Um...yes, it's very much a reason to vote!
Your vote=your voice.
C'mon people, this is NOT the time to become complacent.
Everything we do matters.
Oona: "Oona is a very very very busy kitty but she too has learned that sometimes it's nice to sit in the human's lap and be petted ... FOR A LITTLE WHILE. Then it's off to be busy again!"
ReplyDeletejunie, i git my brushies on dee sofa and then i sits next to dee mum and fall asleep while she watching dee teevee. i am not a lap cat. some times i let her pick me up and snoogle me and kiss me, i tolerate it breefly. win i wuz yunger i did not reely tolerate it much, but i am older now. at least people here comment win yoo post about speaking owt, win dee mum speaks owt, very few peepull comment, oh well, dee mum sez she will not go quietly, she will go down fighting for what izza rite always! burying her head in the sand izza not her M.O.!!!
ReplyDeleteThat really is most wonderful sweetest June and I know your Mom was really happy. Hey, the destruction of the East Wing is absolutely horrible. Thanks for joining Angel Brian's Thankful Thursday Blog Hop!
ReplyDeleteJune, that sounds like a nice cozy moment! Hopefully there will be more, but whatever happens, you're a darling!
ReplyDeleteAwww...June, It is good to hear that both you and your Mom had a nice sit together. These "small" things are much bigger than most of us realize. We hope it happens again soon.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you decided to have a sort of snuggle; so sweet for your Mine Mommy!
ReplyDeleteJune "I kinda sorta think you would be very wise to do that it again"
ReplyDeleteHumans are really warm
Hugs cecilia
Great photo, love that tail :-D We humans love when our cats sit on our laps. Most of mine do. Abby is the one who always does and I am always covered in white cat hair but I don't mind! :-D
ReplyDeleteI didn't post yesterday and I don't follow the news over here or over the pond and avoid all politics as it really p*sses me off! The state of Scotland is shocking due to bad leaders :-(
I am thinking Mommy might be wearing that sweater a lot, and the colder it gets the better you will like it and once you find out how wonderful it is to snuggle with Mommy you will do it a lot. I hope so.. doesn't matter though if you don't, you both have a loving relationship with out the snuggles
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